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Continue reading →: Jealousy: The 8 Letter 4 Letter Word
How One Open Couple Deals With and Processes Jealousy. Photo by Bernard Hermant on Unsplash Kate left a hotel room after a night of swinging and slept in the car because of it. It gave rise to my discovery that iPhones don’t do well with rapid deceleration trauma when thrown in…
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Continue reading →: If I Could Only Have One Device….
It Would be an iPad Pro Photo by Daniel Romero on Unsplash It’s warm enough on this Easter Sunday that I’m sitting out back at the fire pit for a little bit. Just finished cleaning up a line of bushes that are too wild to be called shrubs, but too organized to…
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Continue reading →: My Bi-Sexual Wife
Plot Twist: I Think it’s Awesome. Photo by We-Vibe Toys on Unsplash Inspiration has come from some strange places for a couple of the stories we’ve written here. Add Temu to the list. Kate now has something in common with the generation of men who grew up in the ‘70’s and ‘80’s.…
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Continue reading →: What is Fair in Swinging, Love, and Sex?
Are Fair and Equal the Same Thing? Photo by Aaron Burden on Unsplash So, there we were, downstairs at a swinger house party, in one of the all-time great play rooms. A converted basement with 3 inflatable king size mattresses, and two giant sectional couches. An industrial grade sex swing as the…
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Continue reading →: So, My Wife is a Hotwife….Part II
More About How Kate and I Approach ENM and Hotwifing. Photo by Michael Jerrard on Unsplash Kate and I share a kind of dark and offbeat humor that’s common in the world in which we met. People tend to think that folks in 12 step programs are stone faced serious and…
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Continue reading →: I’m 10 Years Sober Today.
When you know, you know. Sunrise from Vandenburg, CA a few years back. Photo by Sam. When you know, you know. I knew on March 10, 2014. I somehow made it into the bathroom that morning, and when I saw myself in the mirror, I knew. Physically, I was at that place…
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Continue reading →: Swinger Hotel Takeovers
What Are They? Where Are They? What Are They Like? Photo by Mara Conan Design on Unsplash The Actor’s Husband is hands down one of our favorite swinger characters. Far as I know, we never said a word to him, I’ll have to ask Kate if she talked to him at all;…
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Continue reading →: How We’ve Met Lifestyle People.
Meeting Likeminded People Isn’t as Scary or Difficult as You Might Think. Photo by Pineapple Supply Co. on Unsplash I moved in with Kate shortly after returning from from a work trip to Iceland. This was in March of 2020. I flew out of Keflavik on Friday, March 13th. This was basically…
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Continue reading →: What Life Looks Like in a Marriage that’s Open
Probably Pretty Similar to Most Happy Couples Photo by Sam and Kate I phrased the title of this article intentionally. Kate and I are married first, and open second. Sure, the open or non-monogamous part is a foundational part of our marriage; our relationship was open before we got married. We’re in…
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Continue reading →: Thoughts on Threesomes, Guy Bi Play, and Some Book Recomendations.
Is three really company? Photo by Simon Hurry on Unsplash Kate and I have been having an ongoing conversation with a guy we’re going to meet and play with this weekend. His name is Michael, he’s a player for sure, some would call him a bull, although he hasn’t used that label…
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