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Continue reading →: Early Lessons To Be Learned
And An Update On Later Lessons….. It’s the morning after the night before at Casa Da Sam & Kate. The wonder Dog and Puppy are currently snuggled up together on the couch. Close to them the elder of the 2 local grandsons is sharing space with them. Good lad, he…
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Continue reading →: It Was The Best Of Times…
It Was The Worst Of Times…. September 5, 1977 was a Monday; Labor Day Monday. I was alive at that point, an 11 year old suburban kid, getting ready to start I’d guess 6th grade. Relatively quiet day in history from the perspective we have today, at some point down…
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Continue reading →: Why Cuckolding?
What’s The Appeal For Me / Us? Why Cuckolding? What’s the appeal? Kate and I were driving home from a nice night out on the town last weekend, decidedly vanilla affair, no one was naked at any point of the evening, and I had the thought that if 4 vanilla…
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Continue reading →: Update On Our Coming Out
TLDR: It Was A Good Move November is our ENM anniversary month. Crazy to think about all that’s happened both with Kate and I and the world at large since November of 2019. The world was a different place, that’s for sure. I suppose November 1939 to November 1945 was…
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Continue reading →: Changing Seasons
Nothing’s Static For Long We held off for as long as we could. We gave in yesterday (well, last weekend now). The propane fireplace (our main heat source) at Casa Da Sam and Kate has been lit. It wasn’t horrible at all yesterday, flirted with 70 (f) and the sun…
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Continue reading →: Gimmie Shelter
Evolving Sex While Aging Together Ok, we’re starting this post with a soundtrack; Kate this means you too. Grab headphones and throw on the Stones classic “Gimmie Shelter”. That’s your homework, and the official soundtrack for the next few paragraphs. I’ll wait a minute or two for everyone to get…
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Continue reading →: Sam & Kate Play With A Squirter(*)
Soaked At The Pool (*This is a repost from the summer of 2024…..Sifu, this is for you my friend. Kate and I have lots of family stuff going on the next couple weeks, so next week may be a repost as well. Time will tell. I have about a thousand…
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Continue reading →: The Picture That Changed It All
The Sexiest Thing I’ve Ever Seen I just bet if you’re a guy who’s been swinging or in ENM spaces, you’ve had less than optimum head. I get that it’s perhaps the oddest thing on earth to be picky with or complain about, but yes Virginia, there is bad head.…
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Continue reading →: Why Do Non-Monogamous Folks Infight The Way We Do?
We’re On The Same Team I can’t believe that as I’m sitting here in early August of 2025, it’s been 26 years since I deployed to Kosovo. This was preceeded with a deployment to Bosnia in I think ’97. I spent a month or so in Sarajevo (pictured above) on…
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Continue reading →: What’s Going On With Guys??
It’s Getting Weird Out There I love the view I have right now. It’s 8:44 Monday evening. Clifford’s head and snout (Kate and I both agree she has my nose) are laying on the arm of the couch, in arms reach for random pat or scritch. IDK if I’ve made…
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