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Continue reading →: What do Marriage and Swinging Have in Common With Cuckolding?
It’s All About Compersion Kate at a club — Photo By Sam I’ve had the good fortune to travel the world, more than once. I’ve gotten decidedly off the beaten path, nowhere close to anything tourist related. I’ve met, struggled with language barriers, and broke bread with a wide cross section of humanity.…
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Continue reading →: Being Uncomfortable in the Lifestyle and Recovery
Photo by Kyle Glenn on Unsplash We’ve made no bones about the fact that Kate and I are both long term sober, and that we met at a meeting. We’ve discovered that there’s a surprising amount of commonality between being sober and being ethically non-monogamous (ENM). Well, at least if you’re…
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Continue reading →: A swinger trip to Puerto Vallarta??? Yes Please!!
Sam and Kate go to Mexico!!! The view at sunset from our villa, looking towards Yelapa. One sure fire way to appreciate a trip to Mexico’s central Pacific coast is to start it from the Newark airport. In early February. Before the suns up. Kate and I had been anticipating this…
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Continue reading →: Meet The New Boss….Same As The Old Boss
Photo by Markus Spiske on Unsplash Enjoying this generation’s peak hardware, while wondering what’s next….. I couldn’t tell you how many times I’ve flown across the Atlantic. The Pacific is easier, that’s right at 20. My first trip to Europe was as a 19-year-old Army Private, off on a grand temporary…
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Continue reading →: How Ethical Non-Monogamy Looks for Us
What Does Being On The Same Page Look Like? How Did We Get Here? Photo by Scott Broome on Unsplash Kate and I are are in Vegas this week, family stuff, no sluttery. While out here, our last post “Our Biggest Issue in the Lifestyle…so far” gained a bit of traction in…
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Continue reading →: Our Biggest Issue in the Lifestyle….so far
Photo by Emma Frances Logan on Unsplash Turns out that ethical non monogamy is easier when both members of a couple are on the same page. Who knew??? How does it look when that’s not the case? Our journey in the lifestyle has been pretty smooth. Sure, we’ve gone thru the…
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Continue reading →: So, My Wife is a Hotwife. Part 1.
Part One of a Series Photo by BĀBI on Unsplash It’s intentional that I’m starting this tonight (December 30th) Kate has just departed to spend the night with a lover, we’ll call him James. They cross paths a couple times a month, depending on life and scheduling. James and I have met;…
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Continue reading →: Our Lifestyle / ENM / Swinging Origin Story
The Beginning of One Couples Journey Photo by Geert Pieters on Unsplash “So I have to tell ya…. when I was all horned up earlier…. I checked out that tinder site for bisexuals. 🤦♀️🙄” — Kate And so started one couples journey into the world of Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM). Every couple who has taken…
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