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Continue reading →: The Problem(s) with Cuckolding
Society’s, not Ours Photo by Kelly Searle on Unsplash Cuckolding has an image problem or several. Kate and I have been around long enough and in enough ENM spaces to know that people’s reaction in general comes from the word rather than whats actually involved with it. Of course, there are also…
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Continue reading →: Kitchen Table Polyamory and a Busy Long Weekend
Mmmmm….Pancakes Photo by Olga Simonova on Unsplash Clifford the Wonder Dog had an amazing Labor Day weekend. There were multiple kid encounters over multiple days, trips to the park, long car rides, a family reunion complete with cousin dogs, Lisa and her dog Bailey stopped by, a bath, grandkids sleeping over…
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Continue reading →: The Lisa Affair
The Story of Kate and Her First Girlfriend Photo by courtney coles on Unsplash Remember how weird the spring of 2020 was? Kate and I are no different in that we have a story or two from that time. Man, they were scary days at first. Soon enough it became as…
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Continue reading →: What’s the Link Between Threesomes, Unicorns, and Swinger Math?
Willingness Baby Photo by Patrick Robert Doyle on Unsplash Couple weeks back, maybe a month at this point, Kate had dinner with a woman named Haley. We met Haley and her husband, Kurt, on SLS. They’re fairly new to that site and swinging in general. They’ve had FFM (Female Female Male)…
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Continue reading →: Coming Out as ENM to Our Kids
It Went Really Well Photo by Jan Tinneberg on Unsplash “That’s my mom…..that’s not my stepdad.” — Megan “That wasn’t on my bingo card for today.” — Rachel “Like pineapple stuff?” — Ben “Will I have to meet any of your partners?” — Nicole Above are our kids reactions as we told them (or they found out) that we’re non-monogamous.…
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Continue reading →: Overthinking Sex and Relationships
Does Everyone Do It? We Sure Do!! Photo by Matt Bero on Unsplash I wish I had a fly on the wall pic of Kate and I the first time we went to a swinger club. The club was TJ’s, which is located somewhere between the Middle of No Where, and East…
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Continue reading →: How to Have an Ethically Non-Monogamous Relationship. Part 1.
The Basics. Photo by Igor Omilaev on Unsplash There’s been a shift in the feedback Kate and I have received since we started posting here on Medium. (By way of an introduction if you’re reading us for the first time……Kate and I are a married couple in our 50’s whose relationship…
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Continue reading →: Feeling Alive Being Non-Monogamous
The Opposite of Cheating Photo by Mohamed Nohassi on Unsplash Were I to describe how I feel about the relationship Kate and I have in one word, that word would be alive. By way of an introduction if you’re reading us for the first time……Kate and I are a married couple in…
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Continue reading →: So, My Wife is a Hotwife…. Part III
When Sam is Away, Kate Will Play Photo by David Clode on Unsplash Early in our relationship, Kate and I spent considerable time apart due to my job. I traveled a lot. A lot. Before Covid, I had enough miles to bump myself to First / Business class for both legs of…
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Continue reading →: Our Take on Ethical Non-Monogamy Rules and Agreements
How to Keep Yourself Sane (-ish) in the ENM World Photo by Mike van den Bos on Unsplash We’ve all learned the unwritten rules of monogamy. No one reading this will need me to explain the next two sentences. He cheated on her. She was unfaithful to him. How about these two…
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