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Continue reading →: Feeling Alive Being Non-Monogamous
The Opposite of Cheating Photo by Mohamed Nohassi on Unsplash Were I to describe how I feel about the relationship Kate and I have in one word, that word would be alive. By way of an introduction if you’re reading us for the first time……Kate and I are a married couple in…
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Continue reading →: So, My Wife is a Hotwife…. Part III
When Sam is Away, Kate Will Play Photo by David Clode on Unsplash Early in our relationship, Kate and I spent considerable time apart due to my job. I traveled a lot. A lot. Before Covid, I had enough miles to bump myself to First / Business class for both legs of…
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Continue reading →: Our Take on Ethical Non-Monogamy Rules and Agreements
How to Keep Yourself Sane (-ish) in the ENM World Photo by Mike van den Bos on Unsplash We’ve all learned the unwritten rules of monogamy. No one reading this will need me to explain the next two sentences. He cheated on her. She was unfaithful to him. How about these two…
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Continue reading →: New Relationship Energy (NRE)
It Sure Can be an Adventure Photo by Thomas Kelley on Unsplash “Who doesn’t love that new car smell??” — Humanity “Love is like oxygen, you get too much, you get to high, not enough and you’re gonna die” — Sweet You damn near owe it to yourself to Google “Love is like Oxygen” and…
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Continue reading →: Getting off the Monogamy Escalator
Being Ethical is Key in Non-Monogamy Photo by Samuel Wong on Unsplash By way of an introduction if you’re reading us for the first time……Kate and I are a married couple in our 50’s whose relationship is Ethically Non-Monogamous (ENM). We’re swingers, our marriage is open; we have sex with other…
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Continue reading →: Clifford the Wonder Dog
Learning About Humanity With Clifford Clifford on the day we met her — Photo by Sam (maybe Kate???) Kate and I are sooooo beyond blessed to have Clifford in our lives. Just about 4 years ago, Kate and I watched her daughters dog for a week. He was (and remains) a pretty cool dude,…
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Continue reading →: The Best Part of Being a Swinger
It’s Not What You Think…..(Tho Pool Sex with Kate isn’t Horrible) Photo by Max on Unsplash I’ve written in the past about how Kate and I had a very public display of affection last year at a local club’s pool party. Well, we fucked in “public”. In the pool. It was…
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Continue reading →: Sluttery, Slut Shaming, Partner Counts, and Swinger Insurance
Living With and Loving a Proud Slut and Some of its Challenges. Photo by Eric Nopanen on Unsplash (I’m re-posting this and a couple other articles over the next few weeks to get the linked titles in sync with the story titles… — Sam) I had intended to write about our adventure to…
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Continue reading →: Kate, my Amazing Wife
She Loves me More Kate greeting a pup in Yelapa, Mexico — Photo by Sam At some point, who remembers when, Kate and I were having one of our conversations. It was about James, her boyfriend, and how he and that relationship flows into and around ours. Kate is always mindful of me and…
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Continue reading →: Be Careful What You Wish For…
Kate and Chris are at a Swinger House Party Photo by Pineapple Supply Co. on Unsplash I’m going to give myself an hour to write; quarter till 9 we’ll see what’s what. We’re doing a new for us thing tonight; Kate is swinging with someone other than me. Her and her friend…
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