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Continue reading →: New Relationship Energy (NRE)
It Sure Can be an Adventure Photo by Thomas Kelley on Unsplash “Who doesn’t love that new car smell??” — Humanity “Love is like oxygen, you get too much, you get to high, not enough and you’re gonna die” — Sweet You damn near owe it to yourself to Google “Love is like Oxygen” and…
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Continue reading →: Getting off the Monogamy Escalator
Being Ethical is Key in Non-Monogamy Photo by Samuel Wong on Unsplash By way of an introduction if you’re reading us for the first time……Kate and I are a married couple in our 50’s whose relationship is Ethically Non-Monogamous (ENM). We’re swingers, our marriage is open; we have sex with other…
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Continue reading →: Clifford the Wonder Dog
Learning About Humanity With Clifford Clifford on the day we met her — Photo by Sam (maybe Kate???) Kate and I are sooooo beyond blessed to have Clifford in our lives. Just about 4 years ago, Kate and I watched her daughters dog for a week. He was (and remains) a pretty cool dude,…
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Continue reading →: The Best Part of Being a Swinger
It’s Not What You Think…..(Tho Pool Sex with Kate isn’t Horrible) Photo by Max on Unsplash I’ve written in the past about how Kate and I had a very public display of affection last year at a local club’s pool party. Well, we fucked in “public”. In the pool. It was…
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Continue reading →: Sluttery, Slut Shaming, Partner Counts, and Swinger Insurance
Living With and Loving a Proud Slut and Some of its Challenges. Photo by Eric Nopanen on Unsplash (I’m re-posting this and a couple other articles over the next few weeks to get the linked titles in sync with the story titles… — Sam) I had intended to write about our adventure to…
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Continue reading →: Kate, my Amazing Wife
She Loves me More Kate greeting a pup in Yelapa, Mexico — Photo by Sam At some point, who remembers when, Kate and I were having one of our conversations. It was about James, her boyfriend, and how he and that relationship flows into and around ours. Kate is always mindful of me and…
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Continue reading →: Be Careful What You Wish For…
Kate and Chris are at a Swinger House Party Photo by Pineapple Supply Co. on Unsplash I’m going to give myself an hour to write; quarter till 9 we’ll see what’s what. We’re doing a new for us thing tonight; Kate is swinging with someone other than me. Her and her friend…
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Continue reading →: Looking Back on the Last Six Months
Some Thoughts on our Medium Journey Photo by Eric Rothermel on Unsplash It’s human nature to look back every now and then and take stock, look at where you’ve been, lessons learned, things that went well, and things that have room to improve. Given it’s been a full 6 months that Kate…
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Continue reading →: Sam and Kate’s Lifestyle Dictionary
Everything You Could Possibly EVER Want to Know!!! Photo by Pisit Heng on Unsplash I’m going to use our own words for this, no copying and pasting from other people’s work. If ChatGPT is used (like it is for the Hotwife definition used in an earlier article of ours) I’ll note it…
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Continue reading →: Saying No in the Swinger Lifestyle
Why is it so Hard Sometimes? Photo by Florian Schmetz on Unsplash Why is it so hard to say no? Before we get into that…..Kate and I did get to the Korral this past Saturday for their pool party. No sluttery to report, we both treated it as a mini break…
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