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Continue reading →: So, My Wife’s A HotwifeNot A Plot Twist For Regular Readers So, this is a repost of our second post ever. I’ve not been doing a great job getting words onto paper, have a couple half finished posts that just stare back at me accusingly when I open them up. Writer’s block I suppose.…
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Continue reading →: A Tale Of Two Valentine’s Days“Dixon can fuck.” – Kate One of my favorite things about Kate is she has a knack of delivering lines like this in a matter of fact way at exactly the right moment. This time, it was about 9 PM Monday night while her, both Wonder Dogs and myself were…
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Continue reading →: ENM From An Abundance Mindset
It sure seems I’m not doing a great job at the every two week cadence. I think it’s just harder for me to write in the winter time. Casa Da Sam & Kate is surviving this long cold winter (cue Cinderella) I think we’ve had constant snow cover since a…
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Continue reading →: When It Doesn’t Go Great
Sometimes It Be Like That This is the longest stretch of the year for me. The glitz and energy of the holidays are over, all of the lights are down, now it’s just overcast during the day and dark waaaay too early. A nice balmy 13 F here at Casa…
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Continue reading →: Early Lessons To Be LearnedStarting Out In ENM: The Sex Is The Easy Part It’s the morning after the night before at Casa Da Sam & Kate. The wonder Dog and Puppy are currently snuggled up together on the couch. Close to them the elder of the 2 local grandsons is sharing space with…
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Continue reading →: It Was The Best Of Times…It Was The Worst Of Times…. September 5, 1977 was a Monday; Labor Day Monday. I was alive at that point, an 11 year old suburban kid, getting ready to start I’d guess 6th grade. Relatively quiet day in history from the perspective we have today, at some point down…
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Continue reading →: Why Cuckolding?What’s The Appeal For Me / Us? Why Cuckolding? What’s the appeal? For us, it’s the natural intersection of a woman who doesn’t have a monogamous bone in her body, with a submissive leaning guy. Few people would argue that being dominant or submissive is something one chooses. With Kate,…
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Continue reading →: Update On Our Coming OutTLDR: It Was A Good Move November is our ethical non-monogamy (ENM) anniversary month. Crazy to think about all that’s happened both with Kate and I and the world at large since November of 2019. The world was a different place, that’s for sure. I suppose November 1939 to November…
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Continue reading →: Changing Seasons
Nothing’s Static For Long We held off for as long as we could. We gave in yesterday (well, last weekend now). The propane fireplace (our main heat source) at Casa Da Sam and Kate has been lit. It wasn’t horrible at all yesterday, flirted with 70 (f) and the sun…
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Continue reading →: Gimme ShelterEvolving Sex While Aging Together Ok, we’re starting this post with a soundtrack; Kate this means you too. Grab headphones and throw on the Stones classic “Gimme Shelter”. That’s your homework, and the official soundtrack for the next few paragraphs. I’ll wait a minute or two for everyone to get…
Hello,
We’re Sam and Kate!
We’re a very happily married couple who are ethically non-monogamous. Both Kate and I are in long term (contented) recovery as well. We’re not gurus or experts, we’re simply sharing our experiences with non-monogamy and our outlooks on life.. We’re not going to try to sell you something, or make your add blocker earn its keep. We learned from other people’s stories and experiences along the way; this is how we give back and pay it forward.
You can contact us here or at sam.kate.enm@gmail.com.
