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Continue reading →: International Swinging
A Hotwife Adventure in Italy Photo by Andreas Behr on Unsplash There’s a quaint little town tucked into the Italian Dolomite / Alpine foothills that we’ll call Milagro. (Not it’s actual name; the town is very small and we don’t want to create an issue for anyone) If you’re living at the…
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Continue reading →: An Ode to Baklava
Truly, the King of Pastries Photo of Sam and Kate’s Friday Baklava by Sam If you’re of a certain age, what I’m going to write next will likely disgust you. We’re further in time right now from 1982 than 1982 was from Pearl Harbor. I’ll give ya a moment to let that…
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Continue reading →: Reconnecting After Sex With Others
How Kate and I Come Back to Each Other Photo by Manuel Meurisse on Unsplash I call our driveway the “Batcave”. Casa Da Sam and Kate has an oddball setup. I’ve mentioned before that our house is small, kind of a glorified bungalow with a second floor. The property it sits on…
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Continue reading →: I Miss My Wife
Kate is on Retreat Photo by Sage Friedman on Unsplash Sunday mornings are typically on the quiet side here at Casa Da Sam & Kate. Mornings in general are for me. I’m always the first one up. Kate is blessed with the gift of good sleep, I’m not and am usually up…
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Continue reading →: Does Anyone Like Thirst Traps and Ghosting?
Two Perils of On-Line Dating in the Lifestyle. Photo by Daniel Hooper 🌊 on Unsplash Suppose when I wake up one morning, Kate starts in at me right off the bat. Not a common or frequent thing, but hey, she’s human and so am I. Maybe she woke up on the…
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Continue reading →: That Time I Saw Robert Plant at the Top of the World
Land of the Ice and Snow Indeed…… Slightly Crooked Pic by Sam I’m going to guess 1977 was the first time I heard Robert Plant’s voice; at least intentionally. I remember walking from our house to a Cook’s department store (Cooks was a northeast US chain that didn’t survive much past the…
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Continue reading →: Hotwife 2.5; She’s Not Dull.
Here we go Again….. Photo by Daniel Andrews on Unsplash It’s been an interesting week. One that’s likely to lead to more interesting weeks down the road. There are a couple of reasons for this. First, Kate’s relationship with her on again off again girlfriend, Lisa, is shifting into another on phase.…
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Continue reading →: Communicating: It’s Not All That Scary.
The Keystone of an Ethically Non-Monogamous Relationship. Photo by Ben Wicks on Unsplash It’s neat at this point to look back over the last few months of posts that we’ve put up here on Medium. It’s also interesting to look at the stats from those posts; it’s clear as a bell…
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Continue reading →: Our First Swinger House Party
Was it an Orgy, or a Gangbang? Why, Yes, Yes it Was. Photo by Tierra Mallorca on Unsplash This story starts with a guy named Jack randomly reaching out to us on Swinglifestyle dot com (SLS). SLS is one of the biggest swinger sites on the internet. Its interface is dated and…
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Continue reading →: The Unexpected TED Talk
TLDR: Esther Perel Rocks. Photo by Aatik Tasneem on Unsplash Kate and I have absolutely taken advantage of the information revolution that’s happened over the last 10–15 years. Podcasting, blogs, micro blogs, it’s become easier than ever to get all sorts of information on whatever topic may be of interest to you.…