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Continue reading →: The Picture That Changed It All
The Sexiest Thing I’ve Ever Seen I just bet if you’re a guy who’s been swinging or in ENM spaces, you’ve had less than optimum head. I get that it’s perhaps the oddest thing on earth to be picky with or complain about, but yes Virginia, there is bad head.…
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Continue reading →: Why Do Non-Monogamous Folks Infight The Way We Do?
We’re On The Same Team I can’t believe that as I’m sitting here in early August of 2025, it’s been 26 years since I deployed to Kosovo. This was preceeded with a deployment to Bosnia in I think ’97. I spent a month or so in Sarajevo (pictured above) on…
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Continue reading →: What’s Going On With Guys??
It’s Getting Weird Out There I love the view I have right now. It’s 8:44 Monday evening. Clifford’s head and snout (Kate and I both agree she has my nose) are laying on the arm of the couch, in arms reach for random pat or scritch. IDK if I’ve made…
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Continue reading →: What I Get Out Of Our (mostly) One Way Open Marriage
Spoiler Alert: Exactly What I Need About a half hour ago, Kate returned from spending the night with Chris. As always, Clifford The Wonder Dog and myself were out in the driveway when she pulled in. Once she’s parked the car and I give Cliff the all clear, her internal…
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Continue reading →: Can A Marriage Be Open And Committmed?
Enquiring Minds Want To Know **This is a repost of a story from about a year ago. All’s well at Casa Da Sam and Kate, summer is rolling along. We do have some big news…..Clifford The Wonder Dog isn’t aware of this yet, but her kid sister Billie was born…
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Continue reading →: Pattern Recognition
Kate + An Interracial Party = Gangbang If there’s a rhyme or reason to the ebbs and flows of our sexual energy / adventures, I missed that memo. It’s Tuesday night as I sit starting to write this post, the latest gangbang was this past Saturday. Kate and Clifford are…
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Continue reading →: What’s Your Exit Strategy?
Can You Swing Forever? The day will come when Kate and I hang up our various lifestyle / ENM / swinger / cuckolding spurs. Neither of us are planning on that ending any time soon. Sure, we’re evolving. Where we are today doesn’t look much like where we were 4–5…
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Continue reading →: LIVE!!! From Sunny Rest
Sam & Kate Visit The Pocono’s Nudist Resort There’s something that’s really peaceful about being the first / only one up in the morning. All the better when it’s away from home. At a nudist resort in the Pocono’s…..The first thing you see are the curves of Kates naked body…
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Continue reading →: When Worlds Collide
The Continuing Saga Of Being Out To Our Kids Turns out that Memorial Day Weekend was another in the growing list of solid justifications for our coming out to our kids last summer. As I sit here on the couch writing, Kate is off spending the night with Chris. I’ve…
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Continue reading →: Living The Hotwife Life
It’s Who We Are Here’s breaking news or perhaps a plot twist for some folks: women, maybe not all, but a damn good percentage of them, have a sexual capacity and appetite that puts men to shame. Don’t buy it? Read “Sex at Dawn” or enter “Gang Bang” into the…