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Continue reading →: Stop Searching For Lifestyle PartnersStart Looking For Lifestyle Events One bit of data both Kate and I enjoy keeping current is her body count. I have a file that keeps track of the names, rough dates, and rough locations. It’s not as creepy as it sounds. The “list” is a text file, chronological with…
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Continue reading →: The ENM Skills We Learned Somewhere ElseIntersections With “Regular” Life Given this is a blog that blends a few different things, lets talk about ice cream. There’s a small mom & pop local dairy that makes the best ice cream in the world. Bold statement for sure, but I’ll put Leiby’s against anything, and it…
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Continue reading →: It Can Be BothAnd Frequently Is Depending on your point of view, this post started either seven or eight months ago, or several decades ago. We’ll keep with the former for now. We got in contact with a guy on SLS who runs either extended hotel parties or mini hotel takeovers; the…
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Continue reading →: Self PermissionMoving Beyond Conditioning Kate’s a badass. In all I’ve written about my beautiful and amazing wife, I don’t think I’ve specifically mentioned this. Long time readers I suspect kindof know this about her without it being clearly spelled out. She cracks me up. Mixed with her broader badassery is…
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Continue reading →: The Ethical Part Of Ethical Non-MonogamySimple, But Not Easy *** So, this was originally posted in January of 2025. Turns out that for some reason it imported to the website in a way I couldn’t figure out how to edit 20 minutes ago. So, I deleted it and am reposting it. *** Doing the next…
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Continue reading →: How I Got HereAll About Sam I’m a thinker, a ponderer. I’m not trying to solve anything when I put my Pooh Bear “Think think think” cap on, I’m looking more to understand. (Thinking about this, I suspect Pooh Bear thinking and me thinking look very similar). This tendency has always been there,…
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Continue reading →: Same Tools, Different Packaging
Hotwifing / Cuckolding Are Still Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) There’s good energy at Casa Da Sam & Kate today. After a spring that was full of all manner of stuff, it seems we’ve turned the page on a very busy and full few months. The biggie is that Kate…
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Continue reading →: Striking While The Iron Is Hot
How Does It Work With Cuckolding? It’s Friday night, 20 till 11. Kate had to go to work for a couple hours, she should be home by 10 past or so. Clifford The Wonder Dog, who for reasons that escape us, doesn’t hang out with me unless Kate’s home, is…
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Continue reading →: Life……Be In It
Keep Calm And Carry On It’s been a week, well, more of a 10 days. Close enough to a week. There were 3 significant “hits to my nervous system” as Kate just called it. Lot’s of joy mixed in as well. Never mind all the normal week type stuff, spring…
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We’re Sam and Kate!
We’re a very happily married couple who are ethically non-monogamous. Both Kate and I are in long term (contented) recovery as well. We’re not gurus or experts, we’re simply sharing our experiences with non-monogamy and our outlooks on life.. We’re not going to try to sell you something, or make your add blocker earn its keep. We learned from other people’s stories and experiences along the way; this is how we give back and pay it forward.
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