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Continue reading →: Ya Can’t Use Rules To Legislate Away Feelings
Yeah, That’s Not Gonna Work. Fellow Reddit’er subsoccerplayer dropped the gem that I’ve used as the title of this post in a thread in the Cuckold Psychology sub recently. It’s a rule of thumb in that particular sub that there’s going to be a LOT of new to cuckolding folks…
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Continue reading →: What Not To Do
A Few Cardinal Errors In The ENM World Waaaaay back in dare I say it, 1986, young PV2 Sam arrived at his first duty station after finishing initial training in the Army. Ft. Hood Texas was and still is I’m sure, a hot dry dusty and very loud place. In…
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Continue reading →: Progress, Not Perfection
Does Cheating And Rule Breaking Have To Be The End? Name one thing you’ve done perfectly, every minute of every day since you’ve been alive……I’ll wait. To get things started, I’ll go first…………………………… If there’s a thing to do or be done, I’ve fucked it up at some point along…
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Continue reading →: Cuckolding / ENM / Swinging Is The Secret To Life
Well, One Of The Secrets Anyway English has got to be a clusterfuck of a language to learn later in life. How in the hell do you drive on parkways and park in driveways?? Jumbo Shrimp? Military Intelligence? I mean seriously, WTF. Here’s another that while not linguistically problematic, is…
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Continue reading →: Getting Old Doesn’t Have To Suck
Make The Rest Of Your Life The Best Of Your Life Kate and I have been one day at time / in the moment people for a long time now; more than a decade. This is a great way to live, so long as you understand that there are things…
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Continue reading →: You’re Not Owed Sex
A Common ENM / Swinging / Cuckolding / Poly Problem There’s a guy in our local recovery / sober circle who Kate and I have known since we each walked thru the doors of our fellowship for the first time. He’s absoloutely one of the local patriarchs. We’ll call him Bob…
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Continue reading →: Getting Lucky At A Swinger Club
Luck Of The Irish-ish On St. Patrick’s Weekend ***Our episode on the Normalizing Non Monogamy podcast is out. It’s episode 384, and linked in this sentence. A reminder that we use our real names on that episode. We’ve each listened to it a couple times and are happy with it. Thanks…
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Continue reading →: The How Of It
Being Successful (And Not) In The ENM World There’s a great scene in a “Yellowstone” episode where the lads have to (I think) get a herd of cattle back down from somewhere or another. I don’t remember if they were in a bad patch of woods, maybe moving into wolf…
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Continue reading →: Holding On Loosely
Is This The Secret To ENM? To Cuckolding? To Life Itself?? You see it all around youGood lovin’ gone badAnd usually it’s too late when you, realize what you hadAnd my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago (who told me) Just hold on looselyBut don’t…
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Continue reading →: “I Don’t Check ID’s”
Cougar Energy In A Hotwife We got really crazy last Saturday night and damn near closed a semi-local SaladWorks restaurant. The greens were a flowing that night, and I’m here to tell ya. We were there to meet a guy who’s a regular reader of this blog. Sam is a guy…
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