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Continue reading →: Getting Old Doesn’t Have To Suck
Make The Rest Of Your Life The Best Of Your Life Kate and I have been one day at time / in the moment people for a long time now; more than a decade. This is a great way to live, so long as you understand that there are things…
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Continue reading →: You’re Not Owed Sex
A Common ENM / Swinging / Cuckolding / Poly Problem There’s a guy in our local recovery / sober circle who Kate and I have known since we each walked thru the doors of our fellowship for the first time. He’s absoloutely one of the local patriarchs. We’ll call him Bob…
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Continue reading →: Getting Lucky At A Swinger Club
Luck Of The Irish-ish On St. Patrick’s Weekend ***Our episode on the Normalizing Non Monogamy podcast is out. It’s episode 384, and linked in this sentence. A reminder that we use our real names on that episode. We’ve each listened to it a couple times and are happy with it. Thanks…
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Continue reading →: The How Of It
Being Successful (And Not) In The ENM World There’s a great scene in a “Yellowstone” episode where the lads have to (I think) get a herd of cattle back down from somewhere or another. I don’t remember if they were in a bad patch of woods, maybe moving into wolf…
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Continue reading →: Holding On Loosely
Is This The Secret To ENM? To Cuckolding? To Life Itself?? You see it all around youGood lovin’ gone badAnd usually it’s too late when you, realize what you hadAnd my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago (who told me) Just hold on looselyBut don’t…
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Continue reading →: “I Don’t Check ID’s”
Cougar Energy In A Hotwife We got really crazy last Saturday night and damn near closed a semi-local SaladWorks restaurant. The greens were a flowing that night, and I’m here to tell ya. We were there to meet a guy who’s a regular reader of this blog. Sam is a guy…
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Continue reading →: Communicating With Your Siginificant Other
It’s fun to tell the story of some of our sexual adventures. One of our favorite inside / running jokes is when Kate asks what the next topic will be, I’ll fire back with “well, better get fucking and we’ll find out!!” It’s been a mix it seems, of stories…
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Continue reading →: The Ethical Part Of Ethical Non-Monogamy
Without It, You’re Just Cheating Doing the next right thing isn’t a kink or a fetish. It isn’t something that can be yucked or yummed. It frequently sucks and isn’t at all what you want to do. You’ll rarely regret doing it, nor have a bad night’s sleep because of…
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Continue reading →: Having The Swinger / ENM Talk With Your Spouse
You Can’t Always Get What You Want This work is in the public domain in the United States because it was published (or registered with the U.S. Copyright Office) before January 1, 1930 Here’s some stuff that Kate and have been talking about this morning…. -16 Fahrenheit (-26.6 Celsius) is…
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Continue reading →: Cuckolding Isn’t What You (probably) Think It Is
It’s Time To Re-Frame It Two things sure to get peoples dander up are discussions of what U2’s best album is, and cuckolding. Well…..Gen X’s dander anyway. I don’t know that the younger generations or boomers give all that much of a fuck about either. In case you’re unaware, and bear…
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