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Continue reading →: We’re Evolving
And a Big Reveal…. Photo by Michael Jerrard on Unsplash Write to the void. That’s a piece of advice that new to medium writers get if they poke around and read some of the how to’s and FAQ’s. My take on that is to have perhaps less a focus on what’s read,…
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Continue reading →: Sam & Kate’s 10-ish ENM / Swinger Commandments
Well, More Like Guidelines…. This file is made available under the Creative Commons CC0 1.0 Universal Public Domain Dedication. In the never-ending list of “no shit” or “duh” or “not a plot twist” moments, I can report that Kate and Oscar got their freak on, did the nasty, bumped uglies,…
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Continue reading →: So, My Wife’s A Hotwife….Part IV
Things That Make You Go Hmmmmm Just a hint of the Chow Hound Cat to the right — Pic by Sam I’m sure there are benefits to having an adult kid who’s both local and smart as the day is long. Megan, the second eldest among our 4 shared kids, has the closest relationship…
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Continue reading →: These Are a Few of Our Favorite Things….
Podcast things anyway…. Photo by Jason Rosewell on Unsplash The main reason Kate and I started this blog is we’re too lazy to podcast. We’ve learned a TON of stuff from podcasts over the years. They’re reliable and consistent conversation starters for us. Kate’s listening to one right now while she’s making…
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Continue reading →: Ooops….We Did It Again
We Leaned A Little Too Far Forward… This file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic license. Humaning is hard. It truly is at times. I don’t know if that’s a phrase Kate and I have used for a long time or it’s one that we’ve lifted from the Normalizing…
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Continue reading →: Sam and Kate’s Analysis of the Drone Conspiracy
The Truth IS Out There This file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 4.0 International license. In addition to being your crack on the spot reporters of all things ENM, Kate and I have a side gig that we’ve kept hidden from you till now: We’re secretly doing secret…
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Continue reading →: Our Sex Without Others
The Monogamous Part Of Us From Wikimedia Commons, the free media repository “Uncomfortable Island” is a turn of phrase regular Sam & Kate readers may recognize. It’s the phrase we use when one of us has something to discuss we’re not thrilled about; something that’s uncomfortable. We’re very comfortable with each…
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Continue reading →: Beauty Tips From Audrey Hepburn
Looks Alone Do Not Necessarily Constitute Beauty, It Flows From Within…. Paramount-photo by Bud Fraker, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons “For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair, let a…
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Continue reading →: Where We Land on the Cuckold Spectrum
Yes, It Is A Spectrum. Photo by Cole Marshall on Unsplash Porn is great. I certainly enjoy it, as does Kate. I’d wager if you’re reading this, you’ve been known to enjoy it from time to time as well. Porn, be it a VHS copy of “Debbie Does Dallas”, from an…
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Continue reading →: Fear and Love
Lies and Truth Photo by Tonik on Unsplash “There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance.” John Lennon In my recovery program there…