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Continue reading →: Communicating With Your Siginificant Other
It’s fun to tell the story of some of our sexual adventures. One of our favorite inside / running jokes is when Kate asks what the next topic will be, I’ll fire back with “well, better get fucking and we’ll find out!!” It’s been a mix it seems, of stories…
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Continue reading →: The Ethical Part Of Ethical Non-Monogamy
Without It, You’re Just Cheating Doing the next right thing isn’t a kink or a fetish. It isn’t something that can be yucked or yummed. It frequently sucks and isn’t at all what you want to do. You’ll rarely regret doing it, nor have a bad night’s sleep because of…
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Continue reading →: Having The Swinger / ENM Talk With Your Spouse
You Can’t Always Get What You Want This work is in the public domain in the United States because it was published (or registered with the U.S. Copyright Office) before January 1, 1930 Here’s some stuff that Kate and have been talking about this morning…. -16 Fahrenheit (-26.6 Celsius) is…
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Continue reading →: Cuckolding Isn’t What You (probably) Think It Is
It’s Time To Re-Frame It Two things sure to get peoples dander up are discussions of what U2’s best album is, and cuckolding. Well…..Gen X’s dander anyway. I don’t know that the younger generations or boomers give all that much of a fuck about either. In case you’re unaware, and bear…
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Continue reading →: We’re Evolving
And a Big Reveal…. Photo by Michael Jerrard on Unsplash Write to the void. That’s a piece of advice that new to medium writers get if they poke around and read some of the how to’s and FAQ’s. My take on that is to have perhaps less a focus on what’s read,…
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Continue reading →: Sam & Kate’s 10-ish ENM / Swinger Commandments
Well, More Like Guidelines…. This file is made available under the Creative Commons CC0 1.0 Universal Public Domain Dedication. In the never-ending list of “no shit” or “duh” or “not a plot twist” moments, I can report that Kate and Oscar got their freak on, did the nasty, bumped uglies,…
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Continue reading →: So, My Wife’s A Hotwife….Part IV
Things That Make You Go Hmmmmm Just a hint of the Chow Hound Cat to the right — Pic by Sam I’m sure there are benefits to having an adult kid who’s both local and smart as the day is long. Megan, the second eldest among our 4 shared kids, has the closest relationship…
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Continue reading →: These Are a Few of Our Favorite Things….
Podcast things anyway…. Photo by Jason Rosewell on Unsplash The main reason Kate and I started this blog is we’re too lazy to podcast. We’ve learned a TON of stuff from podcasts over the years. They’re reliable and consistent conversation starters for us. Kate’s listening to one right now while she’s making…
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Continue reading →: Ooops….We Did It Again
We Leaned A Little Too Far Forward… This file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic license. Humaning is hard. It truly is at times. I don’t know if that’s a phrase Kate and I have used for a long time or it’s one that we’ve lifted from the Normalizing…
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Continue reading →: Sam and Kate’s Analysis of the Drone Conspiracy
The Truth IS Out There This file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 4.0 International license. In addition to being your crack on the spot reporters of all things ENM, Kate and I have a side gig that we’ve kept hidden from you till now: We’re secretly doing secret…