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Continue reading →: Our Sex Without Others
The Monogamous Part Of Us From Wikimedia Commons, the free media repository “Uncomfortable Island” is a turn of phrase regular Sam & Kate readers may recognize. It’s the phrase we use when one of us has something to discuss we’re not thrilled about; something that’s uncomfortable. We’re very comfortable with each…
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Continue reading →: Beauty Tips From Audrey Hepburn
Looks Alone Do Not Necessarily Constitute Beauty, It Flows From Within…. Paramount-photo by Bud Fraker, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons “For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair, let a…
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Continue reading →: Where We Land on the Cuckold Spectrum
Yes, It Is A Spectrum. Photo by Cole Marshall on Unsplash Porn is great. I certainly enjoy it, as does Kate. I’d wager if you’re reading this, you’ve been known to enjoy it from time to time as well. Porn, be it a VHS copy of “Debbie Does Dallas”, from an…
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Continue reading →: Fear and Love
Lies and Truth Photo by Tonik on Unsplash “There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance.” John Lennon In my recovery program there…
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Continue reading →: Sunday Morning
Damn, is it Cold Out. Clifford playing “Where’s Clifford?” this morning. Kate and I have a morning routine. I’m always the first one up, usually an hour or so before Kate. I’ll make my coffee, do the morning check of the internet, play my guitar for a while. I typically have an…
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Continue reading →: What We’ve Learned About Being Interesting
Stay Thirsty My Friends….. Jonathan Goldsmith — From Wikimedia Commons, the free media repository I’ve discovered I like using the phrase “plot twist” in some way shape or form. It’s almost disturbing how common it is in Sam & Kate land. That said…. In what can’t be described as a plot twist…
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Continue reading →: Home
The Address is Within Yourself Photo by Scott Webb on Unsplash “I long, as does every human being, to be home wherever I find myself.” Maya Angelou I was chatting with my friend yesterday about her new relationship. They dated briefly about five years ago and rekindled things in September. She said,…
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Continue reading →: Aging And Sex
Swinging As An AARP Member??? Photo by Artyom Kabajev on Unsplash Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror and been surprised? Believe me, if you’re young enough that this hasn’t happened, it will. The face looking back at you with its wrinkles, glasses, and ear hair just isn’t who…
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Continue reading →: LIVE!!! From a Swinger Hotel Takeover…Part II
The Story of Day Two…. Part of the Wyoming Valley — Sam Not everything is for everyone. Second time in a day I’ve written that. No tales of hedonistic fucking till the sun came up from us in this post. Bottom line up front, neither Kate nor I played last night. We’ve had…