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Continue reading →: LIVE!!!! From a Swinger Hotel Takeover
Sam & Kate Report from the Hotel Kate’s Wardrobe Friday Night Kind of reliably at a weekend like this, “Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas” pops into my head. Far as I recall I’ve only seen the movie once, and that was 20 years ago. This environment always strikes me as one…
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Continue reading →: Ya Don’t Have to Like it….
But ya Gotta Accept it Photo by Phil Hearing on Unsplash And so it begins. The dust is still settling, the votes are still being counted, and the postmortem has begun. The media, addicted as it is to perpetually having the next story, driven by societies addiction to the dopamine hit the…
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Continue reading →: Questions We Have
We’re Not New Anymore, But Still Have Them Photo by Dilip Poddar on Unsplash On to November. I think the biggest blessing of the calendar flipping months is there’s a light at the end of the tunnel for the never-ending political spam calls and texts. I’ve had the same number for a…
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Continue reading →: Our First Hundo
Will it be our last? Photo by Nicholas Green on Unsplash We’ve decided we’re going to try something. We’re going to pick a famous (or not so famous) quote about something sex or relationship related, and share a quick “hundo” post about it. Hundo, as I understand it, is a style of…
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Continue reading →: A Binary Election in a Non-Binary World
There is Only One Choice Photo by Marek Studzinski on Unsplash Kate and I were at a nieces’s wedding a couple years ago when I had a watershed fashion moment. It was an all-in-one wedding I guess you’d call it, the service was at the same spot as the reception. Nice enough…
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Continue reading →: New (or not) to Swinging and the Lifestyle?
Q & A with S & K Photo by Emily Morter on Unsplash It’s bizarre to think we’ve been doing this whole Sam & Kate thing for almost a year now. It’s been reliably good for us, the energy around it is 100% positive. If you’re reading us for the first time……Kate…
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Continue reading →: Interracial Group Sex
Is It All Hype Or Is It A Thing? Kate and a Friend — Photo by Sam There’s a clip of the late great Betty White that’s been making the rounds lately. It’s from the show “Hot in Cleveland” and she has an outtake talking about blackberry pie. I’d never seen the show, but…
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Continue reading →: Relationship First Aid
Preventing Death By A Thousand Cuts Photo by Diana Polekhina on Unsplash Kate and I just got back yesterday (Sunday) afternoon from a 6 day road trip to New England. We started with two days in Vermont, then went to Massachusetts for the remainder. We had a GREAT time, the weather was…
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Continue reading →: Whip Me, Beat Me; Make Me Write Bad Checks
Enquiring Minds Want To Know Kate in Mexico — Photo by Sam Something that may be surprising is a couple decades in the Army made me borderline snobbish about breakfast. I can’t speak to today’s state of affairs, but in my era, basically the mid 80’s to the mid aughts, you really couldn’t go…
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Continue reading →: Coming Out to our Kids Part II
A Surprise to be Sure, But a Welcome One Photo by Ben White on Unsplash Kate is a semi-retired hair stylist. She owned a shop for 25 years and had a thriving business; she survived and thrived thru both the Great Recession and Covid. She keeps a few clients today and does…