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Continue reading →: Our First Hundo
Will it be our last? Photo by Nicholas Green on Unsplash We’ve decided we’re going to try something. We’re going to pick a famous (or not so famous) quote about something sex or relationship related, and share a quick “hundo” post about it. Hundo, as I understand it, is a style of…
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Continue reading →: A Binary Election in a Non-Binary World
There is Only One Choice Photo by Marek Studzinski on Unsplash Kate and I were at a nieces’s wedding a couple years ago when I had a watershed fashion moment. It was an all-in-one wedding I guess you’d call it, the service was at the same spot as the reception. Nice enough…
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Continue reading →: New (or not) to Swinging and the Lifestyle?
Q & A with S & K Photo by Emily Morter on Unsplash It’s bizarre to think we’ve been doing this whole Sam & Kate thing for almost a year now. It’s been reliably good for us, the energy around it is 100% positive. If you’re reading us for the first time……Kate…
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Continue reading →: Interracial Group Sex
Is It All Hype Or Is It A Thing? Kate and a Friend — Photo by Sam There’s a clip of the late great Betty White that’s been making the rounds lately. It’s from the show “Hot in Cleveland” and she has an outtake talking about blackberry pie. I’d never seen the show, but…
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Continue reading →: Relationship First Aid
Preventing Death By A Thousand Cuts Photo by Diana Polekhina on Unsplash Kate and I just got back yesterday (Sunday) afternoon from a 6 day road trip to New England. We started with two days in Vermont, then went to Massachusetts for the remainder. We had a GREAT time, the weather was…
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Continue reading →: Whip Me, Beat Me; Make Me Write Bad Checks
Enquiring Minds Want To Know Kate in Mexico — Photo by Sam Something that may be surprising is a couple decades in the Army made me borderline snobbish about breakfast. I can’t speak to today’s state of affairs, but in my era, basically the mid 80’s to the mid aughts, you really couldn’t go…
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Continue reading →: Coming Out to our Kids Part II
A Surprise to be Sure, But a Welcome One Photo by Ben White on Unsplash Kate is a semi-retired hair stylist. She owned a shop for 25 years and had a thriving business; she survived and thrived thru both the Great Recession and Covid. She keeps a few clients today and does…
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Continue reading →: The Great Orgy Gang Bang
Hotel Party? Yes Please. Photo by Chris Curry on Unsplash There’s a couple ways I want to start this post. First, it’s not all that common an occurrence at this point in life for Kate and I to do something for the first time. I suppose it’s some kind of aging law,…
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Continue reading →: Rainbows, Daisies and Sloppy Blowjobs
Well, One Out of Three Ain’t Bad…. Photo by Deon Black on Unsplash I can’t believe that it’s closer to the beginning of October than the end of August at this point. Along those lines, and apologies in advance if you’re of our age, we’re further time wise from 9/11 than 9/11…
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Continue reading →: Getting Shot Down Sucks
Dealing with Rejection and Disappointment Photo by Nik on Unsplash Kate and I had dinner with a new to us couple earlier this week. We’d met on one of the sites, are in the same age range, and have all been around the block a few times. They seemed attractive, as…