Will it be our last?

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We’ve decided we’re going to try something. We’re going to pick a famous (or not so famous) quote about something sex or relationship related, and share a quick “hundo” post about it.

Hundo, as I understand it, is a style of writing that features (roughly) a hundred words on a topic. We’ll still put out regular Sam & Kate posts, these will be an addition. Hopefully the hundo’s will be little brain worms, something to think and maybe talk about. Or perhaps just a story or a laugh. Given this is the first, and we’re explaining what we’re doing, this is gonna go over. Anyway…..


“Ten men waiting for me at the door? Send one home, I’m tired.” — Mae West

Kate, being somewhat versed on the dynamics of group sex, full on LOL’d at this when I read that aloud just now. Speaking of Kate and group sex….

At our last gang bang Kate asked her repeat “friend” Chuck what he wanted at one point. He said he wanted Kate to slap her mouth with his cock. Kate, good sport that she is, did just that, with a smile and a laugh tossed in for good measure. Chuck loved it and had a big smile on his face as well.

Biggest lesson we’ve learned from group play is to take your shot; ask for what you want. Neither Kate nor I have any recollection of anyone not playing if they asked. Show up, be polite and friendly, use your words. Great things can happen.

Thanks for reading, be kind to yourself and others!!

Sam & Kate

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We’re a very happily married couple who are ethically non-monogamous.  Both Kate and I are in long term (contented) recovery as well.  We’re not gurus or experts, we’re simply sharing our experiences with non-monogamy and our outlooks on life..  We’re not going to try to sell you something, or make your add blocker earn its keep.  We learned from other people’s stories and experiences along the way; this is how we give back and pay it forward.

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